Easy to wake up, stand long, long, big and strong! – Darul Ma’arif Islamic Boarding School

Darulmaarif.net – Indramayu, July 24, 2025 | 20.00 WIB

Behind a household smile, not a few husbands who actually keep anxiety. Vitality or erectile dysfunction Often a problem that is difficult to reveal, even to his own wife. The relationship that was once warm, slowly became bland. What is why?

Many factors: age, stress, eating patterns, to emotional saturation. Ironically, not a few who eventually look for solutions medically, even shortcuts that are full of risk. In fact, in Islam, Prayer and Inner Efforts has an important role in reviving the biological harmony of husband and wife.

Husband’s Special Prayer Title: Practiced when Prostration

The following is prayer which was delivered by one of the caregivers of the Ta’lim Assembly, sourced from the practice of Salaf ulama (especially from the tabi’in), and was allowed according to the Syafi’i school of schools if read in Prostration:

Oh God, O, O Qayyoum, I will remember me, and make it long and make it great and strong.

Meaning: “O Almighty, who live and Almighty. Turn on the penisi, save for a long time. Make it big, hard, and strong.”

Time and way of practice

• Read when prostrationespecially the last prostration.
• This can be in the form of fardu or sunnah prayers.
• Organized repeat this prayer 1-3 times or more when prostration.
• By the way, it can be practiced when it comes to the connection:
• Read this prayer
• Blow into the left hand (3 times)
• So Pay attention to genital

This is a form of spiritual endeavor that is not only legal according to the Shari’a, but also maintains the values of politeness and purity of the halal bed of husband and wife.

The law of reading this prayer in prayer

According to SYAFI’I MADZHABReading prayer in prayer is Caneven recommended, as long as they meet the following requirements:

1. Use fluent Arabic (الفصحى)
2. Read in an organized place, such as in arc

Imam An Nawawi in the Book of Al-Majmu ‘Syarah Al-Muhadzdzab said:

Al -hafi’i and friends say that he calls for what he wants from the last problem and the world, but the last things are the best of the truth in this person who is a citizen and the last influence and the people who are people who are people who are people who are people who are people who are people who are people who are people who are people who are people who are people who are people who are people who are people who are people Who is a person who is a person who is a person who is a person who is a person who is a person who is a person who is a person who is a person who is a person who is a person who is a person who is a person who is a person who is a person who is a person who is a person

Meaning: “Asy-shafi’i and our friends say,” Can pray for whatever is needed to buy the hereafter or in the world, but the hereafter is more important. Can pray with prayer in this place and prayer Ma’tsur elsewhere. Can pray with prayers that are not ma’tur or whatever is needed, whether the hereafter or world affairs. This prayer organization is the same for priests, priests, and people who pray alone. That was the statement of Ash -Shafi’i on al -M and has been confirmed by the Mayority of the Scholars.
(Al-Majmu ‘Syarh Al-Muhadzdzab 3/934)

In the hadith, the Prophet Muhammad said:

The closest thing to my servant is from his master, and he prostrates, so they have increased the request

Meaning: “As close as possible the condition between the servant and his robb, is when he is prostrating, then you should increase prayer (when you bow down that).” (HR. Imam Muslim)

So are Al-Majmu ‘Syarh Al-MuhadzdzabHe explained that the prayers in prayer were not limited to their contents, While using Arabicincluding prayers related to personal needs.

Why do you have to ask Allah?

As Allah said in the Qur’an:

And your master said, “Let me respond

Meaning: “Pray to me, I will be given.” (QS. Ghafir Verse 60)

Any request that is good, including the problem of vitality, is human nature. And there is no safest place but to pray to Rabb who created our body perfectly.

Don’t be ashamed to pray, this is also a worship

The problem of marital relations is not just physical matter, but also concerns honor, happiness, and household stability. So, don’t be ashamed to ask Allah SWT. Don’t let the intimacy of husband and wife become cold just because we forget that Allah is the one who gives life for each of our bodies.

Please practice this prayer with confidence and solemn. May Allah grant and your household will be harmonious, warm, and full of blessings.

Hope it is useful. Wallohu a’lam.